Bitches need to be staying away from my Blog...

Preface: the comments mentioned in this rant were made on another site that I had my blog posted on. I have since moved!

****Warning: vent approaching!!****

Ok, so I realize this is a public blog on a public site... I get that. However, if I don't know you, have never talked to you, have no clue who you are... Why the hell are you commenting on my blog posts??? Your comments are NOT helpful!! They make me angry!!

So, for some crazy reason I had three comments on my "Shoot Me in the Face" post. I have never talked to these women, have no clue who they are, and have no idea how all of a sudden the three of them found my blog at the same time. I can only imagine I was on one of those silly "connect with this Bumpie" lists.

I deleted the comments because I couldn't stand to look at them. I am trying my hardest to keep in mind that these women meant well, they just were severely miss guided. They all basically said "Just relax, it will happen for you! Ps I just found out I'm KTFU with my first (squeak!)" I would just like to say, eff all of you... Had these silly women read any of my other posts, perhaps they would have realized that... It already did happen for me. I already got PG, not once, but twice! But, MY BABIES DIED. So, don't give me this puppies and rainbows sh!t about "just relax" and "everything happens in it's own time". I sincerely hope you ladies never feel the pain of having your unborn baby's life ripped from you. We'll see how relaxed you are if, God forbid, that ever happens...

So, let me clarify my "Shoot Me in the Face" post. I am not upset that my co-worker's wife is PG. I am not upset at how easy it was for them to get PG. It dose upset me, though, that he is announcing it at 6w. 6w is nothing! I made it to 6w, and past it; my baby still died.

Let me also put a PSA out there. Saying things like "Just relax, it will happen for you" or "It just takes time" or "Everything happens for a reason" or "It's all in God's plan" are NOT helpful. They are hurtful. Please never say these things to me, any women who is struggling to get PG, or to a woman who has had a loss. In fact, let's just stay on the safe side, and never say these things to anyone... ever.

So, if you made it through all of that and merely think that I'm bitter and jaded (two things I fully admit to being), I do welcome your comments. If you have something that is helpful, not hurtful, to say, please say it. If you have advice that is , again, helpful, not hurtful, then please share it. But if all you want to do is spread your naive FH-ishness around, please keep your puppies and rainbows to yourself. There is no room for those things in the land of the "have lost".

Vent over. I'm going to Let it Be...


Lots of Love,
KJsbabe